How to keep a Relationship going strong against all odds.

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By Research Analyst

Advice on How to save your marriage and keep your relationship strong

Best ways on How to make a Relationship Stronger.

In any relationship it takes work and effort.

Now that, we have covered the basics here are some ways to make a relationship stronger no matter where you fit on the love meter.

Find out what your partner likes the most, what are they passionate about, then make sure that you find time to include this activity on your calendar.

Become enthusiastic about what makes them happy, be pleasant to be around, look for ways to show them that you are thinking of them.

Look for opportunities to have a date with the person you are in a relationship with, set a date.

Get dressed to the nines, wear their favorite perfume or cologne and then show up with a rose, card or beer which ever works.

Now that both of you have assumed your alter ego roles, go somewhere and play it out. Say if you decide to have your mate meet you at a public place.

One of you shows up first then the other arrives later approaching as if a stranger and see how interesting it gets when the dialogue is changed.

How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It

Friendships, Marriages, Dating or just casual get-togethers can go in many directions and can build and grow depending on how much time, effort and willingness on both parties to make it worthwhile.

To me a great relationship is one that is interesting,

good conversation, common interests and plenty of room for trying new things and being spontaneous. No body likes to get into a rut.

Doing things the way you have always done them will lead to the same old results.

When two people first meet, either as friends,

acquaintances, or lovers its always fresh, new, exciting and something to look forward to, simply because its not predictable and each person is learning about the other person.

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First objective is to know what you want out of it - Do you want this to be long-term, short-term or just a hit and run.

Second you have to be know how much you are willing to give - How much time will you have to put into the relationship.

Third you must recognize where you are in your life - Are you ready to settle down, are you just getting your feet wet, or are you starting over after many years of prior involvement with someone else?

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Role play, now this is something that can really bring out a side of your partner that you never knew about.

Call them at home or work and tell them to meet you somewhere like a bar, hotel, park, movie theatre, coffee house, parking lot, grocery store, gas station, bowling alley, you get the idea.

Next when they arrive at the location have some one other than yourself deliver them a note.... in the note have specific instructions about what character you want them to portray when they meet

(basically they need to be someone or something other than what they have been so far) for example if they are a passive type personality, tell them to be aggressive and vice versa.

Spend Quality Time Together
Spend Quality Time Together
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8 Ways to add new life into your marriage or relationship

  • Join a activity group together - get with other couples and go hiking or have a camp fire.
  • Learn a new hobby or sport - play a round of golf or go horse back riding, mountain climbing, or boat sailing together.
  • Cook together - pick a recipe that is new and get the ingredients and prepare it together and then eat it in the middle of the dining room floor (bare-feet required)
  • Have Story-Time before bed - read a book, each one taking turns.Or if you have a crazy imagination make up a story to tell.
  • Write each other a poem or love letter and stick it in their purse or travel bag when they are not looking.
  • Go to an adult toy store together and act like you don't know each other.
  • Go to a book store like Barnes and Nobles, give each other a project, one of you has to find a book on a particular topic and the other one has to find a book on the same topic and compare notes ( did you pick the same book?)
  • Pretend like you are two kids that have not grown up and throw all the grown up stuff out the window for one day and see what happens!

Either way it all starts with what you want out of your relationship, if you meet a dud, they will stay a dud!

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Comments

MrMarmalade profile image

MrMarmalade 4 years ago

Great hub. We have the best arrangement. Who ever cooks, the other one cleans up.

That is accept for making marmalade. I make and I clean up.

It is called the short end of the straw.

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Research Analyst Hub Author 4 years ago

I like that arrangement!

Wehzo 4 years ago

Very good hub, and advice. Good conversation, common interests and, room for trying new things, and spontaneity is very important. Thank you for sharing this with us.

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soyelude 4 years ago

Wonderful ideas...great hub. Methinks also that lasting or endring relationships are a cumulative effect of what you invest in them..qualitative investment. 1.Give your best and you get the best 2. Don't give what you can't take...don't take what you can't give.3. Give it your best shot, you'll both be glad you did, no matter which way it turns out! Thanks RA great job, I really loved the hub...got carried away.

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compu-smart 4 years ago

Love the advice...Relationships definitely have to be worked on and some more than others!

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Research Analyst Hub Author 4 years ago

Soyelude, I agree with you, its a give and take between two people.

Abhinaya 4 years ago

Couldn't agree with you more on this subject.Great hub.Thumbs up!

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Research Analyst Hub Author 4 years ago

Thanks, Abhinaya!

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VioletSun Level 5 Commenter 4 years ago

Good advice! This caught my attention:

"Pretend like you are to kids that have not grown up and throw all the grown up stuff out the window for one day and see what happens!"

When we are not uptight and are joyful, we do become like children, silly, playful, and its good for a relationship!

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Research Analyst Hub Author 4 years ago

Violetsun, I agree sometimes as adults we get to serious and forget to have fun. It seems that children get amusement out of the simpliest of things!

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Research Analyst Hub Author 4 years ago

You know what vrajavala, I have always thought compatibility was important too! Why is it then that people say opposites attract?

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bohica 4 years ago

A very interesting hub!

I was raised hard shell Baptist with a touch of Pentecostal, she was Jewish.I am a half breed American Indian-German, and she is still Jewish.I am Virgo Dragon, she is Gemini Snake.According to Astrology, both East and West, we shouldn't be in the same time zone at the same time.

But my bride and I have been married for 49years. Going together for 51. It has been one Helluva Ride!

I still remember my German mother screaming at me, "You are not going to married that Chirst killer are you?" If we divorced tomorrow, my mother's side of the family would say, "See, I told you that it would not last."

The only thing my father said,"Damn boy, I just hoped that you'd get a white one, but a JEW. You must have something that I haven't seen!"

So maybe opposites DO attract. What'da think?

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Research Analyst Hub Author 4 years ago

Bohica, it sounds like your right, it happens when we least expect it.

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cliffysmom 4 years ago

Thanks for the ideas! This might be the shot in the arm I need for my current "dud phase".

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Research Analyst Hub Author 4 years ago

Sure CM I am glad, I no that duds are no fun.

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Doc Rich 3 years ago

Good advice and some excellent ideas to build strength into a relationship. Very nice Hub:)

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Research Analyst Hub Author 3 years ago

I am glad you found the information useful.

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crayonbrains 2 years ago

great hub , very well explained !

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Midtown Girl 22 months ago

Great ideas and solid advice! Relationships are work, but the "work" part can be fun, and keep things going strong. Too many people take the easy route...in and out of relationships.

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